Diamond Thoughts

What would you do if you lost all your possessions?

Losing everything you own is a fear most people carry, but what if it happened? Initially, I suggested two simplified responses: “Just start over” or “Let it be.” Now, let’s critically unpack that.

Overly Simplified

Saying “just start over” can come off as naive. Starting over after losing everything isn’t easy. The emotional, financial, and psychological toll of such a loss can be overwhelming. For many, rebuilding isn’t a quick, clean process; it’s messy, and it involves far more than simply purchasing new things. There’s a lot of emotional attachment and memories tied to our belongings.

“Let It Be” Isn’t That Easy Either

Telling someone to “let it be” can sound dismissive of the trauma that comes with loss. It’s not just about losing material objects but also the comfort, security, and identity that come with them. While minimalism can bring freedom, it doesn’t happen overnight, and for many, losing possessions feels like losing a part of themselves.

The Reality

The truth is, losing all your possessions is a profound experience, and neither starting over nor letting go happens easily. The answer lies somewhere in between: acknowledging the loss, grieving, and slowly rebuilding in a way that aligns with your values.